"Oh, we don't like you ladies coming in here with your high heels making our projects so much more expensive and difficult."
Myth # 1 Interior Designers are Just Personal Shoppers
And then there is the human side: uncovering ideal solutions for clients with their different (and sometimes competing) wants and needs. Let's be honest, that's where we get to practice our "marriage counseling" and conflict management techniques. A skilled designer combines these technical knowledge and emotional intelligence to create custom beautiful spaces that look effortless and feel like magic. Good luck getting your personal shopper to accomplish all of that with just a swipe of a credit card. Myth # 2 Interior Design is Easy - Anyone Can Do It!
Professional interior designers spend years in education and training before we begin building real-world experience. When I went to college (many moons ago), I learned how to both hand and computer drafting. My classes covered construction, art, history, and mechanical systems - four years of drinking from a fire hose. Did I graduate knowing it all? NOPE! I took two more decades of designing, teaching, and running my own business to get me to where I am today. And honestly? I am still learning every single day. Design is not for the faint of heart. It requires a working knowledge of construction, architecture, code compliance, materials, and mechanical systems plus understanding ergonomics, design principles, furniture and decor. We bridge the gap between construction and art, with a deep love and respect for both. So let's set the record straight: interior design is not a fluff career. If you are thought, "Who needs a designer? I can do it myself," just know that you are missing out on having a smart, experienced team member to guide the ship, consider the details, anticipate the challenges, and help ensure your money and time are spent wisely. Myth # 3 Interior Designers Will Delay Your Project That all depends on when you hire us. If a designer contributes to a delay, it is usually because they were brought into the project late. We need time to have a proper design process - to explore ideas, balance the budget, and select materials that work beautifully together. Depending on the size and complexity of your home, that process can take anywhere from 3 to 12 months. Homeowners build at most one or two homes in their lives. Understandably, they don't know everything they need to select or when the builder needs those decisions. They also don't realize how long it takes to make all the "right" choices or how one decision can affect five others down the line. If you wait to start the design process until the house is framed, you are behind - and yes, that's when delays happen. Hiring a designer early provides two major benefits. The biggest complaint I hear from homeowners? "I wish I had made different decisions." When you allow time for a true design process, you get space to think things through. And remember - ideas are cheap when they are still on paper. Before settling on everything, get estimates, discuss challenges with your builder, and make adjustments while the "what ifs" are still easy (and inexpensive) to fix. Benefit #2: More Efficient Building Process Is baking a cake easier and faster if you use the recipe? Of course it is. Building a home is no different. With a design finalized up front, there are fewer change order, fewer backorders, and fewer budget surprises. There are contractors all over the world who only work with homeowners who have hired a designer because they know the project will run smoother and be more efficient. So can a designer delay your project? Sure - we need time to do our jobs. Can you avoid that delay and, in the process, make your project more enjoyable, cost-effective, and faster to build? Absolutely. Hire us early. Myth # 4 Interior Designers Make Projects More Expensive Maybe... but not exclusively and every time. Remember - good design costs money. Let's breakdown why designers often get blamed for projects being more expensive. Builders typically give homeowners construction estimates and allowances for fixtures and materials at the start of a project. But here is the catch: most homeowners have no idea whether a $30,000 cabinet allowance is generous or bare-bones for their 5000 square foot home (spoiler: it's bare-bones). From experience, I can tell you that most non-luxury builders do not include robust allowances. They want the job, so they often make their numbers look more competitive. Or, they simply don't build many custom homes so they don't know what upgraded finishes and fixtures cost. If you are building a home, chances are you want more than a run-of-the-mill, cookie-cutter house. Custom homes, even modest ones, naturally cost more. But that doesn't mean your builder budgeted for upgraded or non-standard materials. Interior designers don't magically make a project more expensive. We just shine the light on the options the builder didn't plan for - the ones that are often better for your lifestyle, durability, and long term satisfaction.
Those "better" choices often live outside the original budget-friendly allowance - but they are the ones that add value, comfort and longevity. In the end, designers can absolutely work within realistic budgets. We can help define a realistic budget early, guide you through each decision, and make sure you are spending wisely - not just spending more. So, the next time you hear someone repeat one of these design myths, you can kindly (or sassily) set the record straight. Interior designers aren’t here to complicate your project or drain your budget — we’re here to make sure your home looks incredible, functions beautifully, and stands the test of time.
Good design is equal parts strategy and artistry. It takes training, talent, and a whole lot of coordination behind the scenes. When done well, it looks effortless — and that’s exactly the point. Because at the end of the day, our job isn’t just to make things "pretty." It’s to make your life easier, your investment smarter, and your home a true reflection of you
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Written by: Sonia Barney and Lindsay Webster Monetary ROI |
| Dining Room - After | Family means everything to us at Sonia Barney Design. We know how a home can bring families together, so, when two siblings came to us with their late parents' home, we couldn't resist the opportunity to facilitate in accomplishing just that. It was important to our clients to weave in touches of their parents’ original art collection throughout, so we set out to update their '90s mountain home into a shared family vacation retreat — a space that honors the past while making room for new memories. We absolutely loved watching this home transform. Follow along to see the full transformation! Not only did we give the home a fresh new look, but the family’s art collection got a little facelift too. |
| Primary Bath - Before | We love space planning, and the primary suite configuration was begging to be completely reimagined. The original awkward design resulted in a small vanity, tiny shower and toilet room, and an extra closet that wasn't needed and took up a lot of space in the middle of the room. The outdated cabinetry and wall to wall carpet was also pleading for an update. |
| By removing the closet, we gained an entire wall for a new large vanity. Then we were able to make a separate toilet room, large walk-in shower, space for a freestanding tub and a full walk-in closet to the right of the shower. The bedroom received a similar update by removing the built-in bed surround and adding lovely new furniture. Just imagine waking up to that view every day! | Primary Bath - After |
Before | #2 Tip Have a plan Set a goal for yourself, prioritize your task, allocate the time and set a deadline. Having a plan in place will keep you organized and should make the whole process less stressful. For example: maybe take on one space each day during nap times or in the evening and only work on that one area until it is done. And don't be afraid to adjust your plan as you go. You may find a better method or solution in the journey. |
| #4 Tip Start small Starting small or working in small bursts doesn't mean you're not making progress. Start with one closet or one even one drawer everyday. If you have energy to do more, great! But if you need to stop, that is fine too. This tip is one of my favorites because it's a great reminder that any progress is progress. And I promise that once you start with the small things, the joy you feel will create a momentum to help motivate you to keep on tackling other areas. |
"Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished." ― Lao Tzu
| Peg storage inside of drawers is a fantastic way to organize your dishes. The best part about it is the flexibility to rearrange the layout as your needs change over time. It can be utilized for a variety of items such as dinnerware, drinking glasses or heavy dishes. And our favorite reason to add these is that your kids can safely put dishes away. Can I get, booya?! |
| A pull-out trash is a must-have kitchen cabinet. Not only is your trash hidden away while not in use, but it also makes brushing crumbs directly into it from the counter a breeze. The one in the photo to the right shows a drawer above it that is perfect for storing additional trash bags. We suggest placing this setup near your sink or prep area. |
| Drawers are always our favorite for storage. Any time you can pull your supplies to you means easier access and best use of space. But a drawer alone doesn't mean all is well (thus we see the dreaded junk drawer in every kitchen). The best way to fight a cluttered drawer is with a drawer divider. Either have your cabinet supplier include custom dividers or opt for these expandable utensil organizers. |
| The only thing worse than wasted space is available space that isn’t easy to access. Corner base cabinets have always been a kitchen designers’ nemesis, and for many years lazy susans seemed to be the only solution. But thanks to wonderful product designers there is now a superior option on the market— the blind corner optimizer. This device helps you access all the storage space deep in the back corner of a cabinet with a choo-choo train of sliding pull-out shelves. We think these are must-haves in any kitchen design. |
| Sorry folks, this storage tool isn't one you can just buy online. But it is one of our favorites, so we are adding it here with some extra tips so you can include it in your future custom kitchen design. We all love appliance garages (right photo). The lift-up countertop cabinet is one of the best ways to hide small appliances like toasters or blenders. This cabinet has no bottom and has a cabinet door that lifts up and out of the way, creating easy access for sliding the appliance toward you on the counter. |
| Think pine trees glistening with snow, while snuggling next to cozy fires under a deep navy night sky. These colors translate perfectly into my favorite holiday memories and look great together for any fall or winter dinner party. That is right, you are seeing these again. We love when color schemes translate to more than one event. That (hint hint) is how you keep styling on a budget. Scroll down for more insight. |
| Have you seen those pottery shows? Oh, I could watch them all day. It amazes me how these potters use their artistry and skill to throw a bowl and apply glaze to make some of the coolest reactions and unique patterns. In another life I would be at that potters wheel right now. The beauty found in glazed stoneware is making waves in the interior world. From crackling, to dripping, to cool reactive glazes, these functional pieces of art are being appreciated by more and more people. Not only do they make dynamic dinnerware, you can find beautiful vases for your flowers or multi-piece wall art installations showcasing these techniques. |
Tip 1: Repeat and Repurpose | If you checked out our Thanksgiving table design you may have noticed what pieces we repurposed for Christmas. 1. Silverware - I have a set that I inherited from my grandma that we use for holidays. No need to buy new when heirloom pieces are great to use. 2. Cranberry Drinking Glasses - yup those are the same ones we used for Thanksgiving. In fact, they are so fun to use they may be our new daily use glasses. I just love the color, texture, and price. (Scroll to the bottom for links to buy them yourself). 3. Centerpiece Greenery - this piece of simple 5' greenery I bought years ago at Target and it has been repurposed so many times. For this table, I added some different accents like white faux berries, frosted cranberries, and dried fruit. |
| First: add lots of different types of texture. Look for both visual and actual texture. See the great glazing technique on the plate. That is visual texture. The nubby surface design on the cranberry drinking cup represents actual texture. Soft fabrics and shiny metals are more great textures. Second: Layer, Layer, & Layer. This is one of my favorite design techniques. Gradate size with chargers and plates so that you can appreciate all the different textures. Add 2 drinking glasses, not just for guest preference, but also to show off multiple textures and colors. |
| Are you looking for a fun, inexpensive activity to do with your kids? Consider making your own dried fruit. These dried orange slices are an easy DIY activity that allows your kids to help with the table decor while adding a natural element to the table. There are a myriad of recipes online but here is one blogger with great advice. Barley and Sage *As an additional note, if you are planning to string the orange slices consider cutting a hole in one of the segments before drying them. That way it is easy to slide wire or ribbon through them. |
| Oh how we love color! Deep, bold tones are becoming more common not just in accessories but in all-over painted rooms. This color palette creates moody environments that encourage cozy snuggles and thoughtful contemplation. They are easy to add to warm and cool neutral homes. We highly suggest adding all the colors together to make a more exciting tablescape, but if that seems too bold, at least choose two, to really get the vibe of this colorful trend. |
| One of the best ways to play with color is in colored glass. There are so many ways to add tonal sparkle to your table: stemware, candle holders, light fixtures, beading, stained glass, and translucent accessories. If you are a little nervous to put so much glass around your children or klutzy friends, consider the easy alternative—colorful translucent plastics. The possibilities are endless! |
| Before you go out and buy all new plates and glasses, take inventory of your current supplies. - What dishes, linens, and decor already works with this color scheme? Having a set of neutral dishes makes it easy to use them for multiple color schemes. - Not enough place settings? Can you mix and match to make a full set? We love layering plates and using mixed sets. - Do you have any holiday decor that could be reassigned to the table? Grab a couple pumpkins off the mantle to fill in gaps in the middle. - Do you already have greenery that just needs a few added fall touches? One basic greenery strand can be repurposed for almost any holiday or season. |
| As much as we love the the new luxury products out there, you can never go wrong when you bargain hunt. Check out your local thrift stores and estate sales for unique vintage finds—especially glassware and candleholders. Another of our favorite haunts is the Target dollar section. Can we get an amen?! That's where we found the little glass pumpkins to put on the plate, for just a couple bucks. They always have fun, seasonal items that don't break the bank. |
| The more layers the better it looks. Stacking different textures or patterns helps create depth and interest. Not everything has to match, in fact, matching sets can be boring. As long as you stay within the general color scheme, it will look amazing. The main rule is— have fun with it! We don't set our tables like this very often, so throw Emily Post's book out the door. If it puts a smile on your face then you are doing it right. |
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