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Heels, Headaches, and Other Myths about Interior Designers

10/10/2025

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"Oh, we don't like you ladies coming in here with your high heels making our projects so much more expensive and difficult." ​
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Yes! Those are words that have been said directly to my face. First off, I rarely wear heels and most especially not to a job site. And secondly, designers actually make projects better. People believe all sorts of assumptions about interior designers likely based stereotypes they have heard. 
If you are debating whether to hire a designer, let's address the most common myths head on and give you a better understanding of what we do.

Myth # 1
​Interior Designers are Just Personal Shoppers 
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Believe it or not there is much more that goes into interior design than shopping and decorating. Shocking, I know. While it's easy to assume designers are just decorators who furnish and style homes, the truth is our work goes far deeper. 

Interior design requires of a multitude of skills - from space planning and functionality to creating an overall experience that feels right for the people who live there. Designers need to understand construction, mechanical systems, lighting, cabinetry design, interior finishes, furniture, and so much more. ​
And then there is the human side: uncovering ideal solutions for clients with their different (and sometimes competing) wants and needs.  Let's be honest, that's where we get to practice our "marriage counseling" and conflict management techniques.  

A skilled designer combines these technical knowledge and emotional intelligence to create custom beautiful spaces that look effortless and feel like magic. Good luck getting your personal shopper to accomplish all of that with just a swipe of a credit card.  ​

Myth # 2
​Interior Design is Easy - Anyone Can Do It!
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I once had a client once notice of my old-school drawing templates and say, "Oh! I should get my daughter those and then I could have her be my designer."

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She didn't mean it to be rude - she genuinely thought the magic was in the templates. If only it were that simple! Ironically, that is the very skill of a good designer - making complex problem-solving look effortless. The truth is, anything done well never happens by accident. Good design takes talent, intention, and years of experience.
Professional interior designers spend years in education and training before we begin building real-world experience. ​When I went to college (many moons ago), I learned how to both hand and computer drafting. My classes covered construction, art,  history, and mechanical systems -  four years of drinking from a fire hose. Did I graduate knowing it all? NOPE! I took two more decades of designing, teaching, and running my own business to get me to where I am today. And honestly? I am still learning every single day. 

​Design is not for the faint of heart. It requires a working knowledge of construction, architecture, code compliance, materials, and mechanical systems plus understanding ergonomics, design principles, furniture and decor. We bridge the gap between construction and art, with a deep love and respect for both.  

​So let's set the record straight: interior design is not a fluff career. If you are thought, "Who needs a designer? I can do it myself," just know that you are missing out on having a smart, experienced team member to guide the ship, consider the details, anticipate the challenges, and help ensure your money and time are spent wisely. 

Myth # 3
​Interior Designers Will Delay Your Project
That all depends on when you hire us.

If a designer contributes to a delay, it is usually because they were brought into the project late. We need time to have a proper design process -  to explore  ideas, balance the budget, and select materials that work beautifully together. Depending on the size and complexity of your home, that process can take anywhere from 3 to 12 months. 

Homeowners build at most one or two homes in their lives. Understandably, they don't know everything they need to select or when the builder needs those decisions. They also don't realize how long it takes to make all the "right" choices or how one decision can affect five others down the line.

If you wait to start the design process until the house is framed, you are behind - and yes, that's when delays happen.  Hiring a designer early provides two major benefits.
Benefit #1: Enjoyable Design Process
Working with a designer before breaking ground means you as the homeowner can have a thoughtful, non-rushed design journey. You get to sleep on decisions, weigh the pros and cons, and feel confect about your choices.  
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The biggest complaint I hear from homeowners?  "I wish I had made different decisions."

When you allow time for a true design process, you get space to think things through. And remember - ideas are cheap when they are still on paper. Before settling on everything, get estimates, discuss challenges with your builder, and make adjustments while the "what ifs" are still easy (and inexpensive) to fix.  
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Benefit #2: More Efficient Building Process
Is baking a cake easier and faster if you use the recipe? Of course it is. Building a home is no different.
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When you hire a designer to create your Design Book, you are essentially handing your builder and the tradespeople an instruction manual for the whole project. It's clear, organized, and prevents those "let's just try this" moments that lead to rework and delay.
With a design finalized up front, there are fewer change order, fewer backorders, and fewer budget surprises. There are contractors all over the world who only work with homeowners who have hired a designer because they know the project will run smoother and be more efficient. 

So can a designer delay your project? Sure - we need time to do our jobs.
Can you avoid that delay and, in the process, make your project more enjoyable, cost-effective, and faster to build? Absolutely.

​Hire us early.
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Myth # 4
​Interior Designers Make Projects More Expensive
Maybe... but not exclusively and every time.
Remember - good design costs money. Let's breakdown why designers often get blamed for projects being more expensive.

Builders typically give homeowners construction estimates and allowances for fixtures and materials at the start of a project. But here is the catch: most homeowners have no idea whether a $30,000 cabinet allowance is generous or bare-bones for their 5000 square foot home (spoiler: it's bare-bones). 

From experience, I can tell you that most non-luxury builders do not include robust allowances. They want the job, so they often make their numbers look more competitive.  Or, they simply don't build many custom homes so they don't know what upgraded finishes and fixtures cost. 

If you are building a home, chances are you want more than a run-of-the-mill, cookie-cutter house. Custom homes, even modest ones, naturally cost more. But that doesn't mean your builder budgeted for upgraded or non-standard materials. Interior designers don't magically make a project more expensive. We just shine the light on the options the builder didn't plan for - the ones that are often better for your lifestyle, durability, and long term satisfaction. 
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Let's talk about return on investment (ROI, a popular term in the real estate world referring to how much return you will get from your purchase. I use it a lot when helping clients choose materials and furnishings. The goal isn't to just get a roof over your head as cheaply as possible. It's to build a home that functions beautifully and lasts for years. That's why I might recommend flooring that own't need replacing in five years, appliances that have better warranties, or extra lighting and outlets that will make daily life easier. 
Those "better" choices often live outside the original budget-friendly allowance - but they are the ones that add value, comfort and longevity.

In the end, designers can absolutely work within realistic budgets. We can help define a realistic budget early, guide you through each decision, and make sure you are spending wisely - not just spending more. 

So, the next time you hear someone repeat one of these design myths, you can kindly (or sassily) set the record straight. Interior designers aren’t here to complicate your project or drain your budget — we’re here to make sure your home looks incredible, functions beautifully, and stands the test of time.

Good design is equal parts strategy and artistry. It takes training, talent, and a whole lot of coordination behind the scenes. When done well, it looks effortless — and that’s exactly the point.
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Because at the end of the day, our job isn’t just to make things "pretty." It’s to make your life easier, your investment smarter, and your home a true reflection of you
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Is A Remodel "Worth It?"

7/3/2025

 
Written by: Sonia Barney and Lindsay Webster

Monetary ROI
​vs Emotional ROI

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As designers, we often hear clients say, "will this remodel be worth it?" "Will I recoup my investment?" As much as we would love to give them a definitive yes, those are tough questions that only a very skilled fortune teller can predict. Instead of saying yes or no, I like to have the conversation about what "value" means to them and discuss ROI (return on investment).
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​​If you are currently asking yourself these questions about a potential home project... KEEP READING. This is for you!

What is ROI?
The technical definition states, return on investment measures the financial gain or loss (net profit) resulting from an investment compared to the cost of that investment. This term is used in all sorts of business and marketing sectors but we have noticed it crossing over into real estate and home construction industries. Everyone wants high ROI - which is understandable. But ROI isn't as cut and dry when it comes to the homes we live in.  We need to be considering not only monetary ROI (immediate and future) but also emotional ROI.

Monetary ROI
Let's dig deeper into how monetary ROI plays into home remodeling terms.

Example: You have decided to remodel your kitchen and its estimated cost is $100,000.  It is good ROI if the remodel increases the resale value of your home by that same amount or more. Bad ROI means it doesn't increase the value of your home by $100,000.  It's that simple....or is it?

With the ever rising cost of goods AND labor, it is getting harder and harder to accomplish good monetary ROI.  Does that mean you shouldn't remodel your kitchen? This is where you need to determine if you need good ROI now or in the future.  If you are flipping the home for immediate profit then it's probably a bad investment if the remodel costs more than the value of the home.  However, if you are planning on living in your home for 5+ years and the market keeps increasing in value, then you are likely to get that monetary ROI in the future.  As you can see, although it's somewhat hard to predict the future market, it is pretty easy to evaluate if a project is "worth it" monetarily. But is profit gained everything to consider when doing a remodel?
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Emotional ROI
When we talk about ROI it's not just about the financial return, but also how the investment improves someone's QUALITY OF LIFE.  We call it emotional ROI.  Let's walk through a common kitchen remodel project to better understand this.
Problem: You live in a home with an out-dated, one-butt kitchen where appliances hit each other, the sink gets clogged every time you run the dishwasher, and there is minimal storage for your pantry items.  Everyday you have to move small appliances around to just be able to have a little countertop room to prepare your meals.  You know you really want to open a wall, extend your kitchen, and get that much coveted island. 
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Before Floor Plan
Solution: You hire a designer to reconfigure the space and help select everything. They redesign your whole kitchen creating an amazing new layout that fits in all of your wishes including a big island and new pantry.  You and the designer select new appliances, flooring, plumbing fixtures, cabinets, and countertops evaluating the pros and cons of each decision.  Then you add the kitchen jewelry: backsplash, hardware, and decorative lighting.  IT'S GOING TO BE BEAUTIFUL!  Finally, the cost of the kitchen comes in and you find out it will $100,000. Now it is time to determine if it is "worth it."
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After Floor Plan

Determine Emotional ROI Exercise
Imagine your day to day experience in the new space. (For this example image a kitchen with finally enough room for the kids to sit and tell you about their day, cooking supplies in arms reach, countertops devoid of small appliances, and room for two people to cook and clean joyfully.) Now ask yourself these questions.
  • Will your quality of life improve at all? Yes/No/Marginally
  • On a scale of 1-10 how would you rate your experience in your new space?
  • On a scale of 1-10 how would you rate time saved in the more efficient layout?
  • How much longer will you be able to live in this space if you remodel? 
  • On a scale of 1-10 how much will you regret if you don't remodel?
  • Does the $100,000 investment seem less of a concern when you know you will get so much out of it?

Now you might think that we are pressuring you to say it is worth that money.  Let's be clear- we are NOT.  Emotional ROI is extremely subjective and only the homeowner can determine the answer.  What we are saying is that emotional ROI must be considered just as much as monetary ROI. You need to evaluate if the investment in your home (money and time) is worth what you will get out of it (home value increase and quality of life increase). 
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Before remodel
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After remodel

Bonus Tip
Let us offer you one last piece of advice. If you are on the verge of remodeling, building, or just plain buying a new house, please don't discount the value of good design. Do it right the FIRST TIME. 

We have never heard someone say, "I wish I would have done this cheaper."
What we hear most often is, "I wish I had just added the (fill in the blank)."
From personal and professional experience, 99% of any remodel will cost more when you have to go back and fix later.  Don't kick yourself later because you wanted to save a little money now. We recommend waiting and saving up to do it right the first time. Our job as your designer is to help you anticipate the inherent costs of "good design". When you are ready to invest fully we will be there to guide you through that decision making process so you feel confident that you are selecting the right finishes and products for you now and in the future.  We guarantee, hiring a designer from the beginning will save you time, money, and anxiety from making poor or rushed decisions - all ROI factors that must be considered while asking yourself "Is this remodel worth it." 

Five Tips You Need to Know Before You Declutter

1/3/2025

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Written by: Lindsay Webster
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We're not going to sugarcoat it: decluttering sucks! 

​The words declutter, purge, downsize or clear out can immediately make you want to curl up into a ball.  It's a daunting task that makes you feel like you're getting sucked into a black hole, making it oh-so-hard to get started.  Whether it's family heirlooms, forgotten toys, boxes you haven't opened since you moved in or just plain old junk, it can be mentally taxing.  

​Luckily for you this is sort of a natural specialty for me.  Growing up in a military family we moved around a good deal and that meant lots of packing and unpacking.  Decisions always needed to be made logically without too much hesitation.  Needless to say, I've had plenty of experience. 

Recently we decluttered the SBD office and I think the whole team can appreciate the "cleanse" of items that no longer were serving the business. This experience was my inspiration for this year's first blog.  

​We challenge you to use January as a purging month.  Don't keep anything that is not going to serve you and your family for the year of 2025!  
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 #1 Tip
Willing accept the mentally, physically and emotionally draining journey
This is a genuine tip you won't want to forget during the process of decluttering.  Accept the idea that thoughts and emotions may make it difficult to move forward. You may at time cry or groan (trust me I have seen it). But you got this!  Remember, you grow through what you go through.
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#2 Tip
Have a plan
Set a goal for yourself, prioritize your task, allocate the time and set a deadline. Having a plan in place will keep you organized and should make the whole process less stressful. For example: maybe take on one space each day during nap times or in the evening and only work on that one area until it is done. And don't be afraid to adjust your plan as you go. You may find a better method or solution in the journey.
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#3 Tip
Supplies to thrive
Prepare your space and gather supplies in advance. If you have these the process will work much more efficiently.

- Room to work (remove or push to the side unnecessary clutter and furniture)
- Trash bags
- Donation bags or boxes
- Bins/boxes with labels to sort items
- Storage aids and bins in various sizes for items you decide to keep (consider the size and type for each room)
- Specialized teams that handle bulk junk, cleaning, donation or organization
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#4 Tip
Start small 
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Starting small or working in small bursts doesn't mean you're not making progress. Start with one closet or one even one drawer everyday. If you have energy to do more, great! But if you need to stop, that is fine too. This tip is one of my favorites because it's a great reminder that any progress is progress. ​And I promise that once you start with the small things, the joy you feel will create a momentum to help motivate you to keep on tackling other areas. 
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"Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished." ― Lao Tzu
​#5 Tip
Make it fun
When did life get so serious? Throw on your most trusted playlist, order your favorite pizza and make it fun!  Let positivity take over and you will look back on this experience in awe.

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I really hope after reading this you feel confident in your next decluttering journey.  It is just that—a journey!  Hopefully when it's all said-and-done you and your home feel lighter and brighter.
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A Tried-and-True Design Recipe

10/28/2024

 
Written by: Lindsay Webster

Our Recipe for Success

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This is not my yummy banana pudding recipe, but nonetheless, if you're looking for a delicious design tip, you're in the right spot!  

​Some would argue that all your furniture fabrics should match.  A few might even say your furniture should all be from one collection. But we're not convinced that this is the best method for an elevated design. We are here to say you can ABSOLUTELY MIX AND MATCH your furniture!

​We actually encourage it here at SBD, so we decided that it's time to share our recipe for success when building a room design that feels cohesive with mix and matched fabrics. 
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First, you need to FIND YOUR COLOR SCHEME INSPIRATION PIECE.  This will determine what colors you will pull to create your palette,  thus reducing future choices, which in turn helps reduce overwhelm.  
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Here are some ideas for your color scheme inspiration piece:​
  • ​Rugs
  • Drapery
  • Artwork
  • Wallpaper
  • Existing Interior Feature

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At this point you've got the room,  your inspiration piece, and your color palette.  Now you can START TO LAYER fabrics.  Let's say you're working with a living room, for example, so you may need two sofas and a couple of accent chairs.  We suggest the BIGGER furniture pieces be your solid fabrics since you likely won't want to replace those often.  

​HAVE NO FEAR, we use "solid" as a loose term.  It can be a leather, a textured solid, a boldly toned solid or even a small pattern. The goal is that from far away the bigger pieces look more solid. The choice is yours—use a color from your inspiration piece or keep it neutral. JUST HAVE FUN AND MAKE IT YOU!


Next, small furniture pieces like accent chairs or ottomans can be a great option for the patterned element.  A patterned fabric can TIE EVERYTHING TOGETHER and act like bridge between your "solid" fabrics and the inspiration piece. Remember to pull colors from your inspiration piece. This will help you stay cohesive. 

Finally, once you have your furniture pieces figured out, you can add all of the perfect touches with pillows, throw blankets, drapery and decor.  Sprinkle in the bolder tones in these pieces because they are easy to switch out in the future. Also consider mixing pattern sizes. If you chose a large scale fabric for the chairs, consider a smaller scale pattern for the pillows or drapes. JUST KEEP LAYERING. 

Additional things to consider when selecting furniture fabric: 
  • Warmth of existing wood
  • Metals/mixing metals
  • Wall paint 
  • Flooring
  • Lighting
  • Architectural features 

​When it comes to mixing and matching fabrics, this is our recommended way to get started if you've been feeling stuck.  Do what works for you and trust your instincts!  We hope this tip gets you thinking outside of the box.  If you want to see an example of how to do this in real time, visit our Instagram to see how Sonia puts a living room together using a rug for inspiration.
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